When I was preggers with Eli I shared my matching outfit fantasy with my Hot Hubby. He thought it was "lame" and said he would never do it. I countered back that I usually pick out his clothes for big events (don't we all) and he wouldn't even notice (till it was too late) that he was coordinating to a "T" with his son!
Kinda funny now that when my hot hubby is in charge of dressing his son somehow they are wearing the same color shirt.... mmmmm... I say.... you think matching is lame? Ha! You have been caught! He smiles and doesn't say a word... he doesn't have to... he is overflowing with pride for his boy.
Of course he wants that connection with his son. To me matching is like putting your banner over your little one. Saying this one is MINE and I love him. And I love him because he is MINE.
To our perfect (in our eyes) son and daughter, our banner over you is love!! We love you because you are ours.
Anyway, matching totally RULES!!!!!!